

your intention can change your total outlook on something. let me give you an example. at my last job there was a guy who came into our offices usually once to twice a week. i'm not sure when it happened but i got really irritated at him and hated to be in his presence. it got to the point that whenever i heard him coming down the hallway i could feel my blood pressure start to rise. if i were a dog, i'd have my hackles up for sure!! i could feel my face scrunch into a scour just as the sound of his voice although i was never this way to his face. i honestly don't remember why i felt this way. one day i had had enough of my own childish and pettiness and decided to make an intention to like him. it was hard at first because i was intending on changing my behavior (and we are creatures of habit, non?!). but each time he came in the office i asked him how he was doing and eventually i noticed that i started genuinely caring how he was. it was no longer a formality, i actually cared. for the next few weeks things got better and better and i started liking him and enjoying talking to him. all of this came about because i had intended to change my outlook on how i saw and felt about this individual.

- write down your goal or intention
- share your intention with someone, blogging about it, etc. by doing this it will make you accountable and therefore more likely to stick to your goal or intention
- take one small step towards your goal or intention today
- acknowledge your accomplishment, no matter how big or small, and continue taking small steps toward your goal or intention
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My NEW intention is that Pitt will beat WVU at their next meeting :-P
this post is fantastic. i love your thoughts and the saying at the top. thank you so much for sharing. i set intentions often, but it is always good to have a helpful reminder. here are my intentions for december. hugs and love, ♥kaileenelise
Great post, lovely lady!
Wonderful post! I'm almost afraid to set an intention as I recognize how powerful even recognition is. Once something is out there to the universe...it sticks. Yet I also know that I'm unconciously setting intentions even now - so I might as well have a say!
Hmmm. An intention is to follow that voice inside me that knows who I am - healthy, creative, beautiful, caring, non-judgmental - and to honor, respect, and FOLLOW all of those things it tells me to do in order to remain true to those characteristics.
Big breath....
Melita,
I love how you bring such beautiful food for thought to the table. Intentions for 2010 have been forefront on my mind and your post was exactly what I needed to hear. Merci Beau Coup and many big hugs! xoxo
What a great post, just what I needed to hear today. I also wanted to say thanks for your comments on my blog, I really appreciate your friendship!
melita~ what a lovely post! thank you for sharing. sometimes i get so caught up in the busy-ness of life i am ashamed to admit i forget myself and my intentions for my life. thank you for the reminder.
lots of love to you.
agree completelly on the power of intention. i trully believe that whatever we want, we can do.
weird that you wrote about that because i just posted on this same subject. but i feel the reverse - i'm feeling overwhelmed by the many many goals i have set to myself. i want to be doing things all the time, i need every minute to count, i have a list of what i should be doing right now...
Recently I set the intention of loving my body as it is right now and not criticizing it everytime I look in the mirror. It has truly worked. Not that I love everything I see, but my intention has definitely shifted things for the better.
Brilliant!! I also like your pictures, so cool.
Wow, great post, Melita!!
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